I read these verses and questions and what comes to mind for me is compassion. I have tried to love difficult people and it is very tough. I get caught up in my hurt and anger which leaves little room for love. I pray to God to extend the compassion He uses to love me in spite of my hurt towards Him. I pray that God allows me to see the person as He sees them giving me the ability to step outside of myself. If I can do this, I sense compassion building and love trailing closely behind. I reflect on Christ hanging on the cross and asking God to forgive the people because they do not know what they are doing. What compassion Christ shows in light of these people killing Him. I pray for just a sliver of this.